N. & K.

We have worked with Trisha for the last year and a half. When we first started coming to her, our marriage was nearly broken and we were whispering the D word. I can definitely say that working with her has been the best investment for our marriage and money.

Why, you ask?

Trisha taught us how to listen and communicate our feelings and needs. Our wants and desires. It was really difficult at first. I was afraid to share how I felt because in the past it has never been received well. We both put up a lot of walls. The great thing was she was also working with my husband. She taught him how to accept my feelings, and to stop being so defensive. I had hard things I needed to share. They were my feelings and they belonged to me. I was ok to have them.

We both learned to own our stuff and take responsibility for what came out of our mouths. Appreciating pain on both ends of the spectrum and recognizing when we hurt one another. My husband did betray me and I did not know if I could get over the pain. There was a time I really wanted him to feel all of the pain that he had caused me. It was a lot.

We told Trisha that we did want to save our marriage. She jumped right in and gave us so many tools to work with. She helped us recognize that our marriage was worth saving, even with betrayal in the mix.

We have children and wanted to show them something better. We wanted to show them how we could love each other. Today, we can.

We looked forward to meeting with Trisha. She always had such amazing insight and wisdom. She also gave us some really fun things to do together and exercises that brought us closer together. There were definitely times it was tough and we did not want to do them, but we did the exercises anyway. We were always so glad we did. She knew what we needed and continues to help us heal.

We are so grateful to be in a different place today as a couple and as individuals, and we know she can help you too on your healing road. Good luck!